Question: I have a question that’s been burning on my mind ever since I started following you on YT. You guys have kids, right and you guys are American, I take it. So, how do you reconcile what you do on YT (and as a job, I think?) and the kids? Do they know, do they mind or… well, what’s the deal? Anyway, great job, I love your channel. Cheers!

–YouTube Question

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Our Mission

One of the reasons that we do what we do is because we really believe in it! Our mission on Ask Dan & Jennifer is to educate people about love, sex and relationships in a totally non-judgemental way. We believe people should have a resource for love and sex, without the judgement that often comes with the territory. We want them to have a safe environment where they can ask questions about sex and get an informative answer without criticism – no matter what. We want to address the topics that everyone else is afraid to talk about, like teen sex and contraception or how to have safe and clean anal sex, because there just isn’t enough good information out there about many of the topics that people want to know about. We want people to be able to make informed decisions about love, relationships and sex instead of making decisions blindly and having to deal with the consequences – not because they were afraid to ask, but because someone was afraid to answer them.

Answering Your Most Asked Questions

Do You Have Kids?

Many people want to know – do we have kids? How do we justify what we do with our children? Yes, we do have kids – two girls, ages 8 and 10. We feel like what we do on YouTube and on Ask Dan & Jennifer is important and we really, really believe in it. Our children get the privilege of growing up with parents who are happy together, love their work, and who are trying to change the world. I can’t think of a better example for our kids.

How Much Do Your Kids Know?

So how much do our kids know? Do we talk about the topics we discuss on YouTube with our kids? Yes, in a way. In a very age appropriate way. They know that we talk about love and sex, that we help people with relationship troubles, and that they will get to read all of it when they get older.

Do You Discuss What You Talk About On YouTube With Your Kids?

We don’t discuss the specific topics, but we freely answer any questions they may have in an age appropriate way. They currently have a basic understanding of what sex is, that it’s something that grown ups share when they are in a loving relationship, they know what a condom is and where it goes, and that we will answer any questions they may have in the future without judgement. We not only believe in educating and informing the world about sex and relationships in a responsible way, we also believe in educating our children about sex and relationships responsibly.

Source: The Onion – Children Exposed To Pornography May Expect Sex To Be Enjoyable

Warning: to my pleasant surprise, if you watch closely you can see a girl’s nipple in this. Yes, its true. If that offends you we can provide links to various resources chock full of blod and gore, that doesn’t seem to be terribly offensive to anyone and fits fine in a PG-13 rating.

We believe that the solution to a more loving and accepting world lies in foundations of open and honest communication around all topics – including sex education, sexual preferences, and sexual orientation.

Sex Honesty is the ideal behind the publication and sharing of  truthful, uncensored, and sex positive information.

Here is our vision… what we call Sex Honesty.

Do You Stand For Sex Honesty?

If you or your organization supports honesty, education, and a sex positive message, then “Yes”, you stand for sex honesty!

It’s a big job, and we can use all the help we can get. Join us and let’s change the world together!

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Answer this question: How do you keep from ‘losing the moment’ while getting and putting on a condom?

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And be sure to also watch the previous videos in this series…

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And be sure to also watch the previous video in this series…

eXtreme Sex Ed: Do You Really Need To Wear A Condom?

And the first in the series:

eXtreme Sex Ed: Do You Really Need To Wear A Condom?

And be sure to also watch the previous video in this series…

eXtreme Sex Ed: Do You Really Need To Wear A Condom?

Here’s what we think…